Hi! I’m Melissa.

Meet Melissa Nielsen, your Kamloops doula! Here at Lilium Doula Care, I offer full spectrum doula support including birth doula, postpartum doula, fertility doula, and infant & pregnancy loss doula support.

Aside from being a doula, I am a wife, a mama, a homesteader, and a total birth nerd.

I am originally from the lower mainland, but moved just outside of Kamloops, BC in 2022 while I was 8 months pregnant. I know... Yikes! Haha. We have a little 3 acre homestead with two cats, two dogs, two baby calves, five rabbits, and an obnoxious amount of chickens.

When I am not doulain’ it up, you can find me playing video games with my husband, adventuring with my little mini me, or taking care of our animals and veggie garden.

  • I’ve always been fascinated by birth, but it wasn’t until I went through my own perinatal experience that I truly felt called to doula work. Like many, I thought I was doing everything β€œright” to prepare. I watched the videos, read the books, and spent maaaybe a little too much time on Google looking up everything. But when labour actually began, it was nothing like I imagined. I felt unprepared, powerless, and scared. I started to doubt not only myself, but my body.

    Birth plan? Ha! That went out the window real quick.

    Then postpartum hit, and dang does she know to throw a good right hook! Just two months before my daughter was born, we moved over three hours away from all my family and friends. Once we brought her home, I felt isolated, overwhelmed, and again, completely unprepared. That chapter taught me just how vital a solid support system is during the fourth trimester, whether it's family, friends, or a doula.

    Those experiences lit a fire in me. I knew I had to be part of the birth world. My mission now is to walk alongside birthing people to help them trust themselves and their bodies, and to make sure they never have to feel alone, unprepared, or powerless.

    You can do this. I’m here to help you believe thatβ€”every step of the way.

    • Certifying Birth Doula - Doula School Canada

    • Certifying Postpartum Doula - Doula School Canada

    • Certifying Fertility Doula - Doula School Canada

    • Certifying Infant and Pregnancy Loss Support - Doula School Canada

    • Certifying Childbirth Educator - Doula School Canada

    • Lactation for Birth Workers Certificate

    • Infection Prevention and Control (IPAC) Certificate

    • Food Handler Certification

    • CPR/AED Level C Certification

    • DSA Badge

    • Approved doula for the Doulas for Aboriginal Families Grant Program

    • Cultural Safety Training - Doulas for Aboriginal Families Grant Program

    • Member of The Doula Association of BC

    • Member of The Doula Association of Ontario

  • Fun Facts About Me

    I believe that chicken math is a real thing.. How did we go from 7 chickens to 18?

    No comment.

  • Fun Facts About Me

    My husband and I got married when I was 7 months pregnant and I almost didn't fit into my wedding dress.

  • Fun Facts About Me

    I love all things sourdough.

    After months of trying to get my sourdough starter (named "Frodough Baggins") to cooperate, I have finally got it figured out! You will find me baking up some sourdough bread, sourdough pancakes, or my absolute favorite.. Sourdough COOKIES!

  • Fun Facts About Me

    Horses are one of my biggest passions.

    While I currently do not have one right now, I have owned them for most of my life and competed all over British Columbia and Alberta in Team Cattle Penning.

Meet Melissa Nielsen, your Kamloops doula! Here at Lilium Doula Care, I offer full spectrum doula support including birth doula, postpartum doula, fertility doula, and infant & pregnancy loss doula support.
Meet Melissa Nielsen, your Kamloops doula! Here at Lilium Doula Care, I offer full spectrum doula support including birth doula, postpartum doula, fertility doula, and infant & pregnancy loss doula support.
Meet Melissa Nielsen, your Kamloops doula! Here at Lilium Doula Care, I offer full spectrum doula support including birth doula, postpartum doula, fertility doula, and infant & pregnancy loss doula support.
Meet Melissa Nielsen, your Kamloops doula! Here at Lilium Doula Care, I offer full spectrum doula support including birth doula, postpartum doula, fertility doula, and infant & pregnancy loss doula support.

Let’s Connect!

When meeting with me, whether it is in person or virtual, it is always without obligation or pressure. A consultation serves as a chance for us to get acquainted and to see if my services are the right fit for you and your family. Let's discuss how I can support you. I can’t wait to chat!